I love that you are here , thank you for taking the time to get to know me a little. Perhaps someday I can get to know your story too. Being a sacred belle is a way of living, and embraces all the colors of being a fearfully and wonderfully made queen that you are.
I hope my story moves you in a way only God can.
Four year old me on the B1- Road that went through my Village – Whats not to love about this fit
Let me take you back to where it all began—a tiny village with open skies, dusty roads, and a little girl dreaming big dreams.”
I grew up in a village so small that if you sneezed, the entire neighborhood would bless you. Life was simple, yet deeply rich. Our meals were cooked on a three-legged cast iron pot over an open fire, and let me tell you, those flavors were unmatched. Fat cakes were my guilty pleasure, and porridge with sour milk and no sugar was my not-so-guilty, everyday companion. We didn’t have much, but my mom made sure we never went to bed hungry. A can of pilchards and a pot of porridge could feed the entire family, and somehow, it always tasted like love.
Every Christmas, she’d transform our little shack kitchen with a fresh coat of paint—one year, it was a bold, cheerful pink. We even hung curtains where there weren’t windows, just to add a touch of joy. I still laugh thinking about it sometimes – She taught me that you don’t need much to create beauty; it’s about the love and intention behind it.
I loved uncluttered spaces even then, drawn to the way a tidy room could feel like a deep breath. And fashion? Oh, that was my escape. I’d flip through the Jet and Homechoice magazines, make a swimming costume out of plastic bag imagining myself in colorful clothes, strutting through a world far beyond our little village.
On school days, I’d walk for kilometers, barefoot, with my thoughts full of dreams. On weekends, I’d sit at the village service station, watching buses come and go along the dusty B1 road. I’d imagine myself on those buses, traveling to places I couldn’t even name, chasing the horizon. Looking back, I realize that those early moments of longing, creativity, and curiosity were shaping me in ways I didn’t understand at the time.
“Fast forward to the city lights, designer heels, and a new chapter in my life—one where I traded village dust for city streets and a head full of dreams for a career that put me on the map..”
When I became an interior designer, it felt like I was finally stepping into the life I’d dreamed about as that little girl sitting by the B1 road. My talent grew fast, and before I knew it, people were calling me “Ms. Orange Peel” because my work was that sought after. I thrived professionally, working on incredible projects and building a name for myself. Clients sought me out, and for a while, it felt like I was unstoppable and I probably was.
But as my career soared, my personal life felt more like a demolition site. As life and adulting happens I unfortunately didn’t have a close relationship with my family, and while my friends were like sisters to me at first, life eventually pulled us in different directions. My love life was… well, nonexistent, to put it lightly. I was surrounded by strangers who admired my work, but I felt deeply alone.
As I grew professionally, I tried to scale my business. Let me tell you—scaling isn’t for the faint of heart. I made mistakes, lost money, and burned my fingers more times than I can count. Yet, I kept going, landing even bigger projects and pushing forward. On the outside, it looked like I was thriving, but inside, I felt like a beautifully designed house with no foundation.
One night, in a moment of desperation, I started talking to God, just words to Him, I remember feeling ashamed and feeling like a fraud. I didn’t know what I was doing, where to start or if He was even listening, but I needed to feel wanted, loved, and worthy. Little did I know, this was the start of a divine conversation that would change everything.
“When God renovates your life, it’s not a light touch-up—it’s a full gut job. And let me tell you, His design skills are unmatched.”
When I started walking with God, He didn’t just tweak a few things in my life—He turned it upside down. I had to pause everything I knew about life and business. At first, it felt like failure. Thoughts like, What will people say? played rent-free in my mind, making the process even harder.
But in that stillness, God began to speak. He asked me to think about what a full life meant for me—not what success looked like to the world, but what true happiness and purpose looked like in His eyes. I wrestled with questions like, How do my gifts serve Him? What does joy mean beyond the surface? Slowly, I started painting a new picture for my life, one where faith, beauty, and grace could shine. Crazy thing is that the more details God revealed, the more i fell in love with Her – to be honest it felt like a design project – still does I guess – we really trully serve a God that knows us – he spoke to me in a language i would hear and understand.
And, that’s how Lady Z- the Sacred Belle was born. It’s more than a name—it’s a way of living. For me, homemaking became a ministry, and creating sacred spaces became my purpose. Now, I get to help and learn from other women like you do the same—to turn homes into havens of faith, family, and beauty, where every act feels intentional and sacred. The proverbs 31 Belle is certainly goals but through His guidance we all get to add our own twist
I’ll be honest—there are still moments when I feel unqualified. But I’ve never felt more alive. God took my broken pieces, my dreams, and my doubts and created something far more beautiful than I ever could have designed on my own.
Joy does not just happen, you create it. Sometimes its easy to find and other times you seek it. Life changed for me when I realised that everything I'v ever dreamed of and romanticised, I had to choose first then be relentlessly intentional about it .
I have always loved dress up - now as a Sacred Belle I am rediscovering my love for florals, hats, dresses and Elegant garments.
Realising that the gift of the present is savouring the moment, I am intentional about a slow life and giving thanks to God for every moment and experience.
I am the Matron of my home, i have the incredible privilege of nurturing , teaching and comforting my family. The journey is humbling for sure - but worth every minute
My journey of grace has taught me to fall in love with the process and find romance in the mundane. I’m the woman who lights a candle, adorns her desk with fresh roses, and fills the air with a delicate scent—turning work into an experience of quiet, effortless bliss. It’s about cherishing the journey as much as the destination.
I love me some white roses, tulips and hydrangeas. So in my inite wisdom I planted my very first rose bushes and hydrangeas at the entrance of my home - lets just say its a work in process and things are looking pretty good
Growing up, candles weren’t just light—they were magic. Some of my favorite memories happened around their soft glow. Now, candles are an absolute must on my grocery list. Reading, dining, bathing, or just chilling—it’s all better with candlelight. And the scented ones? Total game-changer.
At my big age, sis, I still play. I love to play! Honestly, I’m such a child at heart—it’s like I sometimes forget I’m supposed to be adulting. And I’m okay with that! Tapping into that little girl inside me is my secret weapon for navigating this wild, serious world of adulting. When things feel overwhelming, she’s the one who reminds me that life can still be magical, full of wonder, and a little bit silly. So, I keep her alive—she keeps me dreaming, believing, and seeing possibility in everything.
There is no shame in Gods process
I am standing in the middle of an answered prayer
Is my fairy Godmother
Everything is figureoutable
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